First off let me apologise to you all for being a dick,i just felt rather sorry for fruitnutter and got a little hot and bothered over it,i still believe he was only trying to do something good for the scene,but after reading a lot of others posts i do see the problems it could cause for the websites that support this scene,i made a lot of mistakes in my posts which i now wholly withdraw.
a personal apology goes out to vectra666 who has done nothing more than try to help me since ive been here thankyou for that,
and also to all the layout designers who probably got rather peeved by my childish outbursts,I know how much hard painstaking work goes into a layout regardless of who owns the roms etc,its still your hard work and dedication at the end of the day that allows people like me to play them on wizards emu,and the quality nowadays makes the very early layouts look rather primative.
as for the money side of it i withdraw those comments and see thats how it has to be in order for all to help the scene move forward.
and thankyou to the admins for not banning me i really believed it was coming,i'm glad it didn't 
I bow out gracefully and say sorry to you all.
please accept my apology